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Emptiness

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                                                              Emptiness: Good or Bad  feeling?                                            We all share some of the most fundamental things of the universe which can be a physical structure of everything around us, which can be divided into some particles or energy forms. Furthermore, we share the fundamental nature of the universe deep within us which we often ignore or do not experience in the chaos of the world. But eventually, we come to a specific phase or point in life when flashy things don't attack us anymore or we have perceived the observable or true nature of our wishes and attractions. Which is not being entirety or wholeness. and hence we experience that ...

Lonliness and Mental Issues

                               Although we often use it or say it we are lonely, do we really understand the meaning of it or just randomly say it. We say if we are even just alone for 1 day or some days and our friends and family is just one call or message away. We still assume it is loneliness. But it's not actual loneliness. It is something when we feel lonely even if we are surrounded by many people and talking with many people or not does matter, we feel no one is there for us and no one loves or cares for us unconditionally. But its the absolute truth of life even our friends are there because we share some common things like work, college and they will be gone when it's over. But after all that those who are there for you are your true allies. And we seek for more no of people but we need to understand that in this accursed world rarely one can give their sacrifices even little for others. Cause it t...

Relations

                                                                                 RELATION                                       The bond we share with someone, something, some thought, with self or any thing has connection.  Once I used to think it as something automatically builds, burdened upon us sometimes or  thing which can be run without much efforts. But as grew the phrase in which adults say its thread which we should protect like most important thing, and they were right. It is something we humans need we wish or not cause we are social animals. Its the thing which can make someone give their whole life dedicated for someone, sacrifice eve...

Do it later

                                If I have to tell one thing which is most important in life. This would be procrastination or rather in simple words it would habit of postponing things . What happens with simple things we post pone them very easily cause we don't understand real importance of them. We think of that it is such simple and easy task that I can do it any time but what we don't understand is that simple task does not mean we can easily do it. This is one of the contradiction or paradox. This is because the way our brain works and how it has been evolve in many years. We think of simple things as these can be done in any time in hand , so we really under estimate it. And what happens with difficult tasks is we over estimate and make it so big that we fear to even start it.                 This policy of doing later is really dangerous. What we can do fo...

Learning and Misconceptions

                                               Whenever I think of myself i start to compare with others or directly  go to the highest level possible, I want to achieve or I will do it is permanently but problem with this thinking is when we think in manner I will do it later, or this is gonna happen in future then we are actually making fool to ourself. What we are thinking is that there are some certain rules that we need to follow that all successful people have followed and we will be in their position one day, I will be definitely . One hundred percent you should have this faith, but what you should remember is that there are many many competitors like you competing for same and more importantly you are only competitor to yourself. So consistency is the key for whatever you want to do. Second thing which is main topic for this article is we need to focus on ...

Psychology

                                              As I try to understand myself I come closer to being happy and understanding universe in turn. Psychology is modern science which is directly approach how our mind works and how we think. Understanding it gives edge to have successful life. Because we can do things which will make our mindset such that which is same as of successful people. And everything is game of mindset once you've correct mindset no one stop you when you apply those things in life in reality. Mindset is most important thing which influences our life, cause this is us we are no different from our thoughts. We continuously try to understand our existence , values and purpose for which we are born. Continuously fighting for what we believe and proving our own existence to the world. But when we understand we are not different this whole universe or all things ...

Purpose

                       Whenever I think of myself I look into my brain and think of myself as person , my past, my dreams, my relations and many more things.  But if we think what are we really living for? In someone's perspective life is really beautiful and kind as that person have experienced those kinds of experiences and other would have totally different kind of thoughts about life or self realization. We constantly seek for pleasure which can be in forms of relations, money , materialistic things , increasing self worth in various ways or may be making some experiences for us. We all are trying to understand life in our own way. Why we are born? What is purpose of our life? Lifetime we search these questions and still many don't find answers to these simple but deep questions.                           We cannot picture of life of mine as separate...

Filter

                             We are born in this world without any feelings and emotions. Whatever we feel starts after  some certain age. As we grow we pursue this world as per our knowledge which is obtained from surroundings. There is mixture of feelings which we daily experience. After some times we experience total different level of emotions. Mood swings are common these days , cause of world we live i.e. social media and stressful work. We see this world through our own vision which defines how we are gonna react to it and what are we gonna take from incidents. Same situation can be way more constructing and same level destructing for two different persons because of their difference in vision they use to see. We see through our own filter , as we are the world is to us. If we are thinking negative all the time same things we are attracting and similar things will happen to us . Our inner world gives ...

The Feelings

                               This is one thing, we all live for, we want to feel good, expect others to make us feel good. Most of the problems would get solved if there were no feelings, but would we have been able to enjoy life ? Emotions are root cause of both happiness and sadness what we experience are all emotions might it be sad, excited , glad, grateful or anything. According to any religion or science also if we could control our feelings we can be whatever we want. The thing we suffer from are not feeling to study or not feeling to work.              But it is one of the most important factor on which our life depends . Cause it decides what decisions we are gonna take and what are we going to do in future. Most beautiful yet same tragic form of feelings is love, can be with anyone , self also not excluded. Sometimes people love more themselves it causes problem...

Happiness and Money

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             What happiness is , we used to think it as the amount of money particular person has, or how famous he/she is or how much power that wields mostly political. But our judgement based upon this things is not 100% accurate. We cannot say that money and power does not matter, it does cause these are surviving tools we need. But our happiness does not depends on these things. We can take for example a person who is poor but still can have happiness index more than the person who is one of the richest people in whole country. And at the same time we can also have one more example, where poor person is not happy and rich person is feeling good and is happy because that person has more money and in turn he can posses luxuries of life and also have better quality life than poor person. So what we have to understand is that we don't need to be binary like as always in movies. Cause we can have a lot of examples contradicting every rule or fact, but ...

What is really means to be alive?

                       Today, I am not going talk in sense that what does it mean by being alive or not in biological way but the time I would be considering and our feeling and thoughts work in which way. So, if we consider simple life as amoeba it also has certain combination of chemicals called DNA simply put it as formula of how that creature would behave or have characteristics. Life starts with simple single cell and goes to complex as humans. For definitions we consider life as combination of cells and organs. But what really brings life is consciousness. Where it come from , what is difference between same person who was alive few moments back and now is dead. Some cultures say about soul which does makes sense when we don't question the concept of where does it come from and how it come? But indeed the fact that it has not proven scientifically , effort has been made to measure the difference in weight of person just b...

Life is Contradictory

                       Firstly i would like to have some examples that you can relate to. So here I am taking a good example suitable for this situation which is Attack On Titan. Maybe this is just anime and things here are different from our world. But what I want to take from this is the way Isayama has put various perspectives of human life in form of characters which are the most important and powerful aspects of anime. Firstly we have titans eating humans, then we come to know that these are not just mindless titans but they are also humans made into titans by Marley. After that, we get the information that this isn't a war between Titans and Humans but two nations that have their own history and way they teach to their students. And both sides have Eldians children as their power holding titans, which are just getting crushed under political issues of adult world. So we thought that here are only two sides but later we kn...